Personality disorder service user help and support from Emergence

Carers of those who have a diagnosis of personality disorder (PD) are often confused, anxious and fearful about what is happening in their lives, how to deal with the constant crises that arise and how best to support their loved one while taking care of themselves. This group can help by sharing experiences and suggesting better ways of coping.

“I joined the carers group at its inception and it has been a lifeline to me.  I was so shocked and worried at my daughter’s first hospital admission, following several suicide attempts, and the group gave me a safe place to outpour my grief about a subject that at the time I was unable to talk about to others due to stigma and embarrassment. They have been with me ever since, rejoicing in the good times as well as supporting me in the bad.  This is what BPD [borderline personality disorder] is, a rollercoaster of emotions for all.  I have learned so much about setting boundaries as well as other advice on coping with a very painful subject.  I went to my first meeting determined not to say anything, now you can’t stop me!!”